For many of us, what we face as coronavirus continues to spread is unprecedented,and the associated anxiety around coronavirus pandemic is on the rise.

And it can cause fear and anxiety every which way we turn.

We’re facing social isolation and possibly working from home and employers put precautionary measures in place to slow the spread of COVID-19.

When you go to the shops, your met with fellow shoppers filling up their trolleys and panic buying supplies, a response made by many in an attempt to gain some sort of reassurance.

You’re having conversations with friends and family that no doubt have an impact on how we’re feeling and can further amplify our emotions during a time of uncertainty.

You then turn on the television and watch the news of the way coronavirus is impacting the globe or scroll through social media on your phone to read the online commentary and it can all begin to feel mentally overwhelming very quickly.

But there are practical steps we can take to manage our mental health and subsequent anxiety around the health crisis.

10 daily spoke to clinical psychologist Amanda Gordon to find out exactly what we can do:

Acknowledge how you feel and know you’re not alone

Sweet explained above all, it’s actually natural for some people to feel anxious and that it’s a healthy and expected response to something that is unknown.

“When people are uncertain of something they’ve not experienced, there is little point of reference for them to drawn upon, which can lead to individuals fearing the worse case scenario,” she said.

However stress and anxiety are subjective experiences — so what may feel stressful to one person, may seem minimal to another. In either case, acknowledging how you feel is important.

“Validation is key for when someone expresses their stressful experience or disclose that their stress levels have escalated. It’s in the best interest of the person encountering the stress they are believed, that they heard and that they are accepted,” Sweet said.

“Stress can cause overwhelm, flooding and in some cases, cause a few to catastrophise. Self efficacy is vital for when anyone feels stressed, it’s an indicator for them to be mindful, become self aware and seek support.”

Use the people around you to help gauge your feelings

In addition to acknowledging your own feelings, Gordon said it’s important to talk to others to evaluate what’s reasonable and what’s not about your thoughts too.

“I got some very strange, anxious messages from friends today and I was able to say to them: ‘Look, I’m in the workplace right now, and that’s not the story’ or ‘I’m listening to the news right now, and that’s not the story’,” she said.

“Ensure that you listen to the authorities and don’t listen to random posts or read random posts from people and just accept anything because it’s not all true.”

Fill your time with meaningful activities instead of thoughts

According to Sweet, grounding and mindfulness exercises can be wonderful tools for anyone feeling nervous or scared within this present climate.

“Some great strategies in helping us remain calm are listening to a podcasts, reading and spending quality time with friends, family or anyone who is uplifting and a value add,” she said.

“Children are also enriching to be around and can in-fact help enhance adults lives, being a welcome distraction.”

Gordon agreed, explaining that distraction techniques are good ways to help you deal with the stress you might be feeling.

“Meditate and do breathing exercises as well as physical exercise, do things that control anxiety. Share with a friend if you’re feeling anxious,” she said.

Switch off when you’re feeling overwhelmed

It’s important to strike a balance between staying informed about what’s happening but also switching off when necessary.

“Research shows limiting our exposure to stressful images and information overload can reduce us becoming vicariously traumatised,” Sweet said.

Minimise media exposure and only read or watch evidence based information. I also suggest allocating a specific time within their day to which they view the factual information and for a structured period of time to reduce anxiety around coronavirus.

Sweet said this puts a boundary in place which will aid in feeling safe and secure, as well as dissipating anxiety and minimise catrophising.

“Turn off some of your social media feed. You only need to check out what the rules are once a day or maximum twice a day,” Gordon added.

“That’s as often as you need to hear the health minister talk over and over again about what’s going on.”

Engage with things that are good for you

Gordon said while you might not be able to have as much physical contact with people, social connection is still important in making us feel better and lessening the anxiety around Coronavirus.

“Alright you can’t shake anyone’s hand or give anyone a hug, but you can certainly smile. Smiles can go a long way. You can laugh, that’s not forbidden,” she said.

“You can watch something that’s funny, something you’ve wanted to watch for a long time. You can read a good book and talk about it with a friend, start a virtual book club.”

Turning technology into a positive rather than a negative is also a valuable step towards dealing with your mental health, according to Gordon.

“You can even play Bridge online if you need to, there are all sorts of things you can do using technology as your friend instead of your enemy,” she said.

“Technology can be your enemy at this time because you can start scrolling through and panicking and panicking and panicking or you can use it to engage with people in a really healthy way.”

If you feel that the coronavirus pandemic is affecting your mental space and exacerbating your anxiety, please reach out to one of our clinical psychologists. We have arranged for alternatives to face-to-face consultations for those that are hesitant to travel to our clinic.

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And while Ms Gordon notes that it’s important to be sensible and have enough supplies at home if there is a quarantine in place, this isn’t something we need to be discussing with out kids. In addition, she says children can still play with each other.

“We haven’t been told to keep children away from each other,” Ms Gordon continues. “We have to remind kids that they are safe and that we as adults are doing what needs to be done to keep them safe in the world. Because that’s what they get frightened about.”

As parents, Ms Gordon says we also need to be considering our own behaviour – particularly when it comes to accessing news about the virus. “We can all get traumatised by the over-consumption of stories,” she says, adding that her recommendation is to catch up on the news after the children are in bed. “Then you can have a sensible discussion about how you’re going to live your lives without worrying children unnecessarily.”

Ms Gordon says it’s important to convey to children what they need to know as kids pick it up when we’re keeping things a secret. “The main thing is don’t over-consume media yourself or you’ll be anxious and don’t consume it in front of the children. Good solid mindful parenting is going to be the thing that works as it usually does, to get through everything.”

When it comes to teenagers, Ms Gordon says school closures can be “a bit scary”. “Ensuring there’s good social interaction between kids is important as well. If kids aren’t sick, although they might not be able to go to a particular facility, as I understand it they’re still allowed to connect with other people.”

If children are frightened, Ms Gordon says it’s important to teach them the areas in life over which they have control. “This includes their own personal hygiene,” she says. “And the rest of it … we just have to live our lives and not become prisoners to fear.

“Take some control and don’t be helpless yourself – and then your kids won’t feel helpless.”